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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My best friend from college is a man. We've known each other for over 20 years and when I was married, he was close to both me and my husband and I have been there for him numerous times over the years with all kinds of personal and professional help. Now my friend is married to a woman from another culture and she does not like me and does not want to spend any time with me. My friend is very close to my children and plans activities that involve them- offers to take them to the movies, but without actually saying so, he refuses to plan any activities with ME- also including his wife and/or other people! I'm not trying to move in on this relationship; I just miss my friend. I was hoping that if we all spent time together, she would mellow towards me but I can't seem to make that happen. I've tried to talk to my friend about it, but both times he got really mad at me for bringing it up. Any advice or am I at the point where I'm going to have to start grieving what was once a very close and supportive friendship?[/quote] Women suck for this reason (I am a woman). If he doesn't draw boundaries, there is nothing you can do. She will not mellow towards you because the problem doesn't lie with you, it lies within you. I hope he comes to his senses. It certainly doesn't bode well for their longevity.[/quote]
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