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[quote=Anonymous]As a spouse who has been married for a very long time, and is considering cheating, why is the cheater necessarily the bad one? My DH has treated me like sh:$ for years, has repeatedly called me names that should have forced me to divorce him, calls me stupid, fat, etc. and is generally grumpy and rude. If I decide I'm lonely, I'm attracted to someone who is attracted to me and makes me feel special for the first time in years, it's just not that simple. Didn't my DH already break his vows when he decided to disrespect me and call me horrible names? I know those who say yes, I'm the bad one and I should just divorce him instead, but it's just not that simple to me. [/quote]
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