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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am the PP who first recommended David Masterman. Let me give you some sincere advice: if it does get into heavy litigation, then you need someone like DM for sure. But before you go all the way into a war with your husband, you need to make an assessment as to whether he is the kind of guy who would want to screw you financially. If he is not and if you have decent handle on the assets you have jointly and individually, think in terms of what an equal split of those assets would work out to for each person. See if you can come to a general agreement on how this should be split and then it can be formalized in an agreement. Issues like child support and custody should be resolvable. The former is done by formula in VA based on what each person is earning. The latter would be a given in most cases unless there was abuse involved. You have not identified all of your assets but the one that is potentially complicated is the value of your husband's business. This would require a professional to come up with a valuation and you would definitely need legal help. I suggest this approach because once you get lawyers involved in every issue, it will become protracted and will cost you both a fortune - money that would come out of the assets available for distribution between you and your husband. Now if your husband cannot be trusted to level with you about the finances and you don't have any knowledge of the details, then you would have to totally rely on lawyers and determining the facts through depositions and discovery. [/quote]
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