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[quote=Anonymous][quote=RHinVA][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The crying in the bathroom killed whatever chance you had with this guy. Makes you appear needy and desperate.

I've always ended up in the best relationships when I was consciously NOT looking for a relationship. Maybe take a break and love will find you. [/quote]
I know I shouldn't have cried, but I'm also going through a lot of family issues and it kind of pit me over the edge. [/quote]

There it is. Maybe you're looking for this guy to be an escape for you from these problems, a white knight?  It's completely understandable and I sympathize with you a lot.  But, in a time when you need to lean on someone turn to your friends and family, people who know you and love you and who you can trust.  If there's no one you feel comfortable doing that with, go to a therapist. Sometimes just being able to vent to someone whose sole purpose for that hour is to listen to you can be cathartic.  I hope it gets better, op :) [/quote]
Thanks!
I am going to talk with him so. I think it's for the best that I end things and possibly pursue a friendship when I am healthy. Bc I don't want him to have to deal with my family problems. I don't want to break up, but I have no clue what to do. I don't want to cause any more necessary drama for us.[/quote]

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