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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I hate to jump on you as well, but really, it sounds like this is your issue.  You said that the only thing you and your DW fight over are your parents.  Why are you and DW fighting about them - it means you disagree with each other and seriously, from the sound of it, you should be fighting with your parents about this, not your lovely DW.  you and DW should be on the same page with this - that your parents stay the hell away unless they can be civil to your DW.

I think once you make that clear to your DW, she won't want to divorce you anymore (hopefully - if like you say - everything else is fine).

Also, just something else to consider.  If you DO leave your wife over this (or she leaves you..whatever) you have to accept that you will never ever have another serious relationship.  EVER.  because YOU and YOUR PARENTS are repeating the same patterns  over and over again.  Bottom line is this is between YOU and YOUR PARENTS.  NOT your DW.  she is just a bystander because it could be anyone in that placeholder and your parents will treat them the same way as they are treating her.

Be kind to your wife, validate her feelings of frustration and anger, and for God's sake, support her and choose her when your parents behave like this.[/quote]

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