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[quote=Anonymous]1) Regarding your dad and his family:

I haven't read all the replies but read your paragraph and there is one BIG theme in your story, and that is that this man does not respect boundaries.  So you opened the door a crack and he's trying to kick it open.  This is such a red flag.  He will NEVER respect boundaries so you MUST stay away.

2) Regarding your mom:

Ok be mad at your mom for choosing such a nightmare for your biological dad, but after that, you are out of line and here is why:  For God's sakes, woman, she tried for TWENTY-FIVE years to FIX her mistake.  You HAVE a dad.  What, you are mad at her for keeping you away from some horrible person who doesn't respect boundaries?  Get a grip--someone who doesn't respect boundaries is the type of guy who'd kidnap a kid.  It wasn't safe.  And these half-sibs?  What, you think they are angels?  Even if they are, HE is connected to them and she knows not to open the door to him.

You are solidly out of line with your mom.  You should be kissing her feet and thanking God that she rescued you.  You know how many women stay with the likes of your dad and subject their kids to all sorts of abuse?  She got out.

Now she doesn't sound like a total peach, from what you say, but she's human and makes mistakes and did her best by you.[/quote]

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