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[quote=Anonymous]I don't think you are going to understand this until you are older and have a child of your own, but I'm in my mid-forties and have kids. There are things I did when I was younger which I don't feel I need to share with my kids and I suspect this is how you mom feels about that period of her life. I'm going to bet she's dealing with a lot of hurt and difficult emotions from that time herself. I think you are viewing this as something your mom has done to hurt you and I suspect this is not the case -- I'm betting a lot of her actions and her not telling you the whole story is to protect you and because she doesn't want to have to reveal these horrible things to you. She's probably afraid you will think less of her. Nineteen: she was a kid. I know you are hurting, but trust me when I say your perspective on this will change greatly as you mature.[/quote]
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