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[quote=Anonymous]I have a younger kid, but a couple of close friends have older kids ("good" kids) both have stole money or lied about something big at least once. Both lied again to prevent fpgetting caught.

Regarding money-- Here's an idea. Make him "earn money" by doing chores that benefit the family. Laundry, yard work, etc. (not cleaning his own stuff which is his job). Don't just "tell" him- show him, how hard it is to earn something. Have him earn $60 with chores over the summer.

I think that taking his privileges for a short time is valid- but it may do more to convey " your" displeasure than teaching the lessons of hard work and honesty. He's an older child and should have to work for a few things, especially when money is tight.

I have a close friend (single working mom) whose son (twelve) is saving for a computer by doing chores, watching younger siblings, saving birthday money and has even sold some of his possessions toward this goal. It's incredibly cool- and born out of necessity to help his mom and family. [/quote]

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