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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]you are so right about coming clean but I am terrified he will leave me!  sounds silly but It is how I feel.  I am scared.  It has stressed me out and pissed me off to think of it.  We did have a conversation today about his use of the amex.  I could totally pay off every thing very quickly if I weren't paying 4k plus every month on that damned card!
he agreed that we would both take it out of our pockets for a while.  That should help.  I may try to get the courage to tell him about the rest.  Not sure why I feel the 100% responsibility on my shoulders because regardless what other pp.'s think, I did not rack up the debt.  I just shuffled money to pay each month.  mistake made.  I get it.  I am paying for it now.  
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OP, of COURSE you racked up this debt.  You are in debt that is your fault and solely your fault (since that 15K has nothing to do with your husband) so yes, you racked up that debt.  If you maybe start taking some ownership for it, you might feel better.  Honestly you just sound so incredibly dishonest.  I feel so bad for your husband.  He probably feels guilty that you're stressed out about debt that he contributed to and is trying to make it better.  Little does he know you're lying to him about your own debt.  What a healthy marriage :roll:  [/quote]

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