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[quote=Anonymous]It seems that the best solution here would be to increase your income. Can you add an extra day to your workweek without changing jobs? Or pickup some babysitting work, either while you're with your kids or while they're with your DH or other relatives? I also think you should come clean to your spouse. You made a mistake and overspent, but that isn't an unforgivable breach. And it sounds like he's at least as quick to spend, so he might be more understanding than you think. Also, you presumably gave up full time work to raise his kids and help make his life better on the home front. That means he has some responsibility for your financial needs, and as a couple, you need to be honest with each other about the fact that you can't afford to SAHM right now.[/quote]
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