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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What struck out to me was that you said your children who are teens are bratty another word for disrespectful when wife is around. Red flag in my books. Grown children (I do consider teens grown) are far too intelligent to let 'mom' persuade them do be ride to dad. Kids are perceptive. They see things as they are. They see your nuances, and issues and what you being to the family, they do see the bigger picture. They do see how their mom is being respected. They do not disrespect one parent bc moms trained them to be that way. I'm not buying that,

I grew up In a home where my father had issues. Mom tried her best to teach us to respect dad and value all he does for our family. As early as I can remember, despite my mom never uttering a negative word about him, my three siblings and I were on the same page with him and respected  him less. Nothing my mom could have said or done to change that, we have eyes.

I bet you have a lot of issues. I bet you bring as much negative energy to the plate. Marriage isn't easy. Evaluate yourself. Kids don't disrespect their fathers just bc mom throws herself a pity party. Not buying that. [/quote]

I am agreeing with this poster.  Another thing that jumped out at me is that you automatically think you are entitled to the leftovers just bc of. . . .what?  You got there first?  You are the husband?  You want them?  Well, you are part of a family, not a singular agent, so I say no one gets to gobble up all of something, no matter who they are in the family.  In our family, we consider everyone's feelings and preferences, so if others would also appreciate the leftover pumpkin pie or whatever it is, then take that into account and don't be a sneaky pig and just wander in there and gobble up all of it.  I really do not see your problem here.  Your wife, who I'd say is trying trying to keep peace in the household and manage everyone's feelings, offers you a dessert, and you post about it on an online forum saying YOU feel disrespected and not listened to?  I feel sorry for HER.  Get her on here.  :). 
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