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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Have been meaning to revisit this thread again, to say thank you again for all your input and to update you on what happened. In the end, we decided not to go. DH just decided BIL's recent behavior to that point was too unpredictable. No one in DH's family will tell us how his Christmas visit was. Don't know why, but they won't. In the months since, judging only my DH's conversations with him and his increasingly odd FB posts, it was the right call for us not to go. He has been posting strange videos; a month ago, he posted an 8-minute rant about people who want him to "change." He screamed and yelled, ripped off his shirt, said F you a hundred times. It was frightening. He just lost it. The next day, he posted another one, in which he was rosy and sunny and just musing about life. I encouraged DH to show them to his parents, which he did. No response. I fear that in a couple years' time he will be living on the streets or be the victim of violence or victimized in some other way. I am family but an outsider--I feel like I can see what is coming but there is just so much I can do. Thanks for listening--it's an ongoing issue.[/quote]

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