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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm surprised no one has said this. I'm sorry but move on OP. You are doing all the work. Even assuming he adores you and wants a serious relationship, your relationship is already so unbalanced that it's a recipe for unhappiness. You're at his beck and call. Trust me, this stuff does NOT get better, only worse. His actions are telling you what he is willing to put into your relationship. He has chosen to prioritize his career at this time, and that's fine, but it means any relationship with him will be unbalanced and focused on his needs and schedule. And I don't think any woman is happy in that type of relationship long term. [/quote]
I was going to just go to the bottom and post something very similar to this!  When I was young, I was in some unbalanced relationships. They NEVER work out. If he really wanted to see you, he would make an effort. You write how you are always the one driving 200 miles. That is a red flag.  My advice is to find someone closer to where you live and write this one off. NOw, if you write him off and he misses you and goes out of his way to pursue you (he makes that 200 mile drive), then okay. But the way it stands right now, you deserve someone who wants you as much as you want him.[/quote]

Ha ha ha.  I love how all you ladies (or man boobs) automatically blame the guy in a situation like this.  It's not his fault at all.  It's OP's fault.  He was honest and said he was moving for his career.  If she was committed to a relationship with him she would move to where he is (after a serious conversation about their "future together").

OP is just a female game player who, herself, would jump at the next big dick to come along, only it hasn't yet.  The nerve of some people.   You want to see him more often...so he should do, what, exactly????   You haven't even shown enough serious commitment to him to actually discuss your future with him, or even ask to, so why should he assume that there is going to be any future?   You do realize, of course, that you would have no credibility discussing a future with him, unless you made your willingness to move where he is very clear?  Of course you haven't told him that since you have no intentions of uprooting your comfortable little life to be where he is.[/quote]

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