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[quote=Anonymous]NP here.

I'd be furious too.  But both with him and myself because OP, you know he's an idiot with money so agree you set yourself up for this.  But of course you have a right to be mad!

Now he is not cheating and you say he's a great dad, so I propose you wait the two years until DD is in college.  In the meantime, get your financial stuff together.

I say this because if you think first class tickets are going to cost a lot, the cost of divorce and two households is going to be sky-high.  And you are so overworked that you have no time to book flights, this of how overworked you'll be doing this divorce and possibly moving etc.  You would be shooting yourself in the foot, OP…calm down and think about it logically.

Now as an aside and as a tangent:  I think one of the biggest sexual turn-offs for women is when a man acts like a child.  Women are not sexually attracted to children, and when a DH becomes one of their charges, it really messes with the sexual chemistry on the DW's side.  So I get it why you want a divorce on a few levels.  Also, anything related to security, if a man handles is "very manly."  So throwing away money compromises financial security, which is also a turn off.

So anyways, OP--what I'm saying is, just cool out and decide that although you signed up for the marathon, you don't have to complete it--decide you're just going to go for the 2 year neighborhood jog.  It will help you relax and not yell so much.  (And you can change your mind later if for some reason, he steps up.)[/quote]

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