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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote:
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Cut off his access to the money. Divorce him.

OP - we already have separate checkbooks. He doesn't understand the concept of a bank balance not including deductions for checks that did not clear.

My husband is like that too. We have been married 15 years and luckily I discovered that VERY early in our marriage. What it has basically come down to is I handle ALL the money. It's sad really, whenever he wants to buy something, he has to ask me first.

If I were in your shoes, OP I would probably find out exactly how much extra first class was vs. coach vs. driving to the vacation destination (if possible, you don't say where it is so maybe it is overseas or something). Then I would deduct the difference from his spending money. For example, maybe the difference was $500, and he likes to golf. Well, the next time the opportunity for some special golf outing with his buddies comes up, he'll just have to sit it out. And the next one. And however many it takes until he has forfeited at least $500 of fun.[/quote]
What the fuck? There were no other tickets available for the flight out. It not like he said oh give me first class tickets...it was the only option. You have to book your flight way in advance now days. It sounds like there is a lot more going on here...after 15 years something like this gets worked out and a system is developed to manage the money. OP has framed this in the best light for herself, but if you thing about it, there are a lot of things that do not make sense.[/quote]

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