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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]man here----the other men have hit the nail on the head.  Looks etc aside---be yourself.  If you're a bitch--be a bitch.  If you're an emotional basketcase--be an emotional basketcase.  If you're obsessed with cats---let the guy know.  Somebody will love you for who you are.  If you change to just get the guy to like you---at some point, your true self will come out and you'll be back here asking how to deal with being ex-wife material.

I'll use my life as an example.  My wife is an emotional nutjob.  She just is.  But I fell in love with her because of her crazy personality.  It's funny---before we got married, I hung out with a lot of people--both male(friends from childhood) and female(lot of dating)---my wife is the type of person who can't make friends with other women----so we don't get to do the 'couples thing' a lot.  But my friends like hanging out with her.  Do I miss hanging out with all sorts of people---hell yes.  But do I love my wife even more . . . so much so that I would rather spend time with her than with friends---yes.  It was obvious from the moment I met her that my social life with others would take a nosedive---and it did.  But it was also obvious that she was fiercely loyal to the people she loves---and she is.  She's a great mom, and a great wife.  And that's all I need.

You should do the same---be yourself.   Be HAPPY with who you are---and one day the right guy will come along.  Good luck.[/quote]

FWIW, my wife is a mess, too, but in the best way. I guess I am, as well. We don't put up with each other's idiosyncrasies, we embrace them. And we grow closer as life marches on. Thanks for what you wrote-it was pretty cool.[/quote]

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