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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am shaking because my MIL just came over to see the kids and it ended in a screaming match. I feel that MIL has never respected me, she bullies me and is critical. She doesn't listen to me and says rude stuff. MIL has been driving me insane my whole marriage of almost 10 years. DH has never adequately intervened or stood up for me. So, a recent event happened with MIL where she did something that partially effected my child and I am furious about it. So she came over and we had it out --- yelling, screaming, etc. She called me crazy and said she better leave before she told me what she really thinks of me. FIL and DH had to shuffle her out the door.

DH has not spoken to me since they left. Pretty sure he is mad at me because he is one to ignore issues and not be confrontational.

I am just so upset. Wanted to vent.[/quote]

How very Jerry Springer Show of you.  A screaming match with your MIL.  Not good.  Not good.  I really hope that you don't have a creaming match with your DIL when the time comes.  [/quote]

^^^ Pffft! Whatever!  Leave the op alone. She had ten 10 TEN, TEN. FUCKING. YEARS. of mils shit! You deal with shit from inlaws for ten minutes yet alone 10 years and see what you would do!

Op ignore the hate comments, go fix yourself a well deserved margarita and feel that weight lifted off of your shoulders! Congrats girl!

I have only had 6 years of in law shit & shenanigans and it's been the hardest 6 years of my life! It's so hard on a marriage. It's hard on you with every single birthday & every single holiday just wondering and waiting when they are going to say and do their thing. I finally had enough these past few years while my hubby said nothing and would just let things go by the waste side. Mil,and I finally had a yelling/ raised voice hour long meeting a few months ago after she was cut off for a few months. It felt freaking great to finally speak my mind and call her on her shit. My hubby again said nothing but finally came to realize after I basically told him that he needs to believe me and stand beside me or let me off the crazy train as I wanted out. I was done. I love him more than anything but seriously can not deal with his parents shit anymore. Well they started it up again and tonight is the first time my hubby actually screamed back at them over the phone but he finally stood up for me.  He basically said if they can not respect me than they do not need to be around us or the kids.  I honestly never thought we would make it to this point, but realized it took him a good solid 3 years to open his eyes and for him to come to terms with it. Again I was ready to walk, or run as I could not take the drama anymore! I wanted to be happy! It took him a while and quite a few fights for us to be able to verbalized all of our feeling on both sides too.  Counseling may be a good thing for you too. 
Ps.. No need to apologize to anyone! Your hubby & inlaws needs to apologize to you!!
Good luck! [/quote]
You do realize that OP yelled at HER MIL and not yours????
You have only OP's characterization of the relationship.
PP's have offered some good even handed advice and here u come encouraging a psychotic break!
U need a new prescription.[/quote]

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