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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ignore the QB all of the time and push back - HARD - when/if she ever says anything negative about your child.

Moms, let's not give our power away!  That is more important for your daughter to see than you "pretending" to be "nice" and actually be a doormat for an aggressive, nasty QB.  Teach your daughters to stand up for themselves by…standing up for yourself.  I've done this with a group of QB types at my children's school and you know what, now, THEY kowtow to me.   They are the ones who walk on eggshells around me (after all, they KNOW I'll call out any bullish#%!).

Claim and demand your own position.  If you don't, you are choosing to be a doormat and you are, in fact, allowing the QB baloney to continue.

That said, you have to be strong to do this.  You have to go into it not caring if they "like" you or think you are "nice" in the end.  Truth is they aren't in it for "liking" or for "niceness", so you've got nothing to lose.[/quote]

I tried that a few years ago. DS's playdates dried up, and most of the mutual mom acquaintances went to the QB's side. Whatever you do, the QB will twist it so that [u]you[/u] look like the nutjob and make sure every other mom knows her version of the story.

Do I care? No. I have a pretty demanding job, kids with busy schedules, and no time in my day for petty school dramas. But just know that it doesn't always get better if you stand up to the QBs.

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