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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wonder how many of you have teens.  Advice like "don't let them hang out with the cool crowd," as if parents can or should dictate a 17 year-olds friends.  Or the idea that you need to schedule them up so they don't have the opportunity.  There is a big downside to over scheduling kids , not to mention that in high school they have more control over their schedule.  There are plenty of kids in afterschool sports with heavy course loads, who also experiment with drugs and alcohol.  Or the idea that kids who dabble must have some relative setting the example.

You can't erect a wall around them, which is what all this scheduling is trying to do.  The most important thing is communication.  And you won't have good communication with your child if you have such a simplistic sense of whats out there and how to deal with it.

Stats don't lie, most kids experiment.  And most come out of that experience just fine.  I am NOT condoning it, but I think you need to accept that fact and then decide how you are going to deal with it.  And you have to understand that ultimately you are not in control.[/quote]

I'm 19:51 and 20:00. I have a 16-year-old. I also was a teen who didn't drink until I went to college. I am speaking of what I think influenced me and what appears to be influencing my own DC, who (so far) has shown no signs of alcohol or drug use.[/quote]

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