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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I walked in on my mom and her boyfriend when I was 9 and was traumatized...for two weeks. Then I got over it. I also learned to start knocking. Lesson learned.

I don't see the big deal if it's a serious relationship. I also think it's time to get over the prudish idea that parents are not supposed to have sex. Unless you waited until marriage with your spouse, i[b]t's completely hypocritical to pretend with kids that sex shouldn't occur outside of marriage. [/b][/quote]

A parent's sex life shouldn't be the child's problem. It should be invisible to them, and having a series of boyfriends come over sends a terrible message.  Totally different for a husband /wife to be having sex in their home vs. a person who you are just dating.  [/quote]

What pp is saying is that having a moms boyfriend spend the night wasn't a problem for her.[/quote]

Still doesn't make it right.[/quote]

It wasn't wrong either. My mom having sex wasn't a problem for me. It was respecting her privacy. Funny enough, my dad used to complain about my barging into their when I was younger. Once my parents divorced, I felt like my mom's room was available to me whenever I felt like it. I can tell you that I never just walked in again. It would've been just as gross if it had been my dad and they were still married. I didn't like that my mom was sexually active. But I got over it.

I'm speaking only of sex within a longterm relationship, which I stated above, so having a "series of boyfriends" is a different discussion. Not that it matters, but they eventually broke up years later because my mom wasn't ready to remarry or have more kids and he wanted a family.[/quote]

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