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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here...thanks for all the advice.

I feel better.

we are going to go to counseling. [b] He told me he wants to do this last week.  I am reluctant because he seems like he is blaming me for everything.[/b]  When I tell him, you are undermining me and pitting the kids against me, he acts oblivious.  His main thing is my yelling.  My main thing is he is very passive and sets me up for failure.  He makes me do all the heavy lifting and wonders why I am exhausted and frustrated.  He says I am not in a good mood.[/quote]

What? You have a husband that WANTS to go to counseling and you're reluctant after sharing here how miserable you are??? Lady, do you enjoy being a victim??? Get your head out of your butt and get to counseling. Be open to the process. Be open to really listening to what your husband says. Be open to compromise. Be open to sharing your feelings. It will not be fixed for a while, and that will happen only if you put in the work to change your behavior outside of therapy. [/quote]

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