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[quote=Anonymous]I may possibly be from a different faith, being a Muslim, but I would have to say that The God tests you and your patience with this grief, but remember, you can always learn from it. The God always encourages equality, and it is a grief sin to skew ones attention towards someone else more just because he/she has an advantage over the other. In Islam, there it may be that Polygamy is allowed but in exactly these words

If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice.
—Qur'an, Sura 4 (An-Nisa), Ayah 3[1]

If The God doesn't allow skewness between spouses a man takes, how would he allow such a thing between ones children. Because one should remember, one is not in control of the circumstances he grew up in. Those are in control of The God. It is he who decides how much opportunities you will get in life. Some may get less, some more. But it is the responsibility of the Parent to be just towards all their children, and make sure that no one is left to feel insecure or mistreated. This is one of the Greatest Tests of this life.

When you are given the opportunity of being a Parent, try being just, or even supportive towards the less blessed of your children, as they are in most need of motivation and love. The God gives you the opportunity of evolving into a better parent than your own parents this way. And you'd be a better person for that.

May the blessings of The One True God be upon you[/quote]

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