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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know what the best outcome is, i don't have a solution as of yet, I am reflecting on my entire life and what is ahead. If I could have anything I'd want for her to not be pregnant or at the very least not his, as sick of a game that would be on her part. Two weeks before us. [/quote]

I want to say first that I am sorry fornthenpain you are in now.  I bluntly said itnisnuour fault earlier, and I stand by that, but it also sounds like your man is a lying scumbag and that you are just trying to find love, however irresponsibly, and it sounds like you really believe seven months is a long enough time to really know someone.  You don't know him well enough.  This is a tough lesson.

I'll be your fairy godmother for a minute here.  Let's pretend I can wave a magic wand for you:

1) his ex calls tonight and admits that she's not pregnant at all and that she just made it up to trap him.  She apologizes to you for causing strife and trying to steal your man. 
2) Your man admits he was wrong to be mad at you and says he still wants to live together.

Does that sound good to you?  Good for your daughter?  Really?  Beside BEST CASE MAGIC WAND scenario, you're left with a man who admits having sex with the mother of his children at least once within the past 8 months.  You're left with a man who has so little contact with the mother of his children that he wouldn't actually know whether or not she is 8 months pregnant.  You're left with having entered into a year-long contract with a man you have known for less than a year who hasn't even been sexually exclusive with you for longer than 8 months.  You are left with a man who is still sexually involved and emotionally enmeshed with the mother of his children.

You are left with a man with such bad judgment that he would have sex with the kind of deceptive, dishonest, disturbed person who would lie about pregnancy and attempt to coerce him into parenting a child that is not his, a woman whose character should be well known to him by now because he has had multiple children with and shares custody with her.

You are left with a man who has so little regard for the mother of his children, so little regard for his children, that he does not bother to inform her of his living situation.

You are left with a man who is so irresponsible about his sperm, and about protecting himself and you from disease, that he would have ha unprotected sex.

This is the best you can do for yourself and your child, even with the assistance of a fairy godmother?

Please wish for better for the both of you.

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Wow. This is awesome.  OP, blow this up, print it out and post it on your mirror.  This poster speaks the truth!!! [/quote]

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