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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I did not move in with someone i do not know, we have spent every day together for the last 7 months, he has been around my family and vice versa, if he was not someone i trusted i would have never moved in. It is my fault for how I am reacting to the situation yes, however who is to ever expect or prepare themselves for the reactions of someone else, who [b]would have predicted how she would have acted[/b]? [/quote]

You boyfriend could have!!!!!!!  Why the heck do you think that he did not tell her that you moved in together?

You strike me as the type of person who asks for advice but is not ready for the brutual honestly that comes with it.  You moved in with, made a home with and hitched your financial well being to a guy who had been intimate with the mother of his children shortly before (maybe) you started dating.  Maybe you did not know, but BF did.  If you were inseperable for 7 months (as you say) and yet you did not get a sense of the dynamic between the two of them? You planned to move in yet you did not have a sit down with the ex about how things would go with the kids and the shared household?  OP, you had your head either in the sand or in the clouds. This is basic dating with kids stuff.  The ex is part of the problem.  But the real issue is that you all rushed to move in together without tying up all the loose ends - including their feelings for each other.

Best advice I can give you is that one of you needs to get your own place.  If you want to work through things - fine.  But you cannot do that while sharing a household.  You need to back up and take it slow. I do not care how close you are/were, 7 months is not enough time. [/quote]

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