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[quote=Anonymous]NP here; I like many of the replies.

I'm a couple years older than my DH and we've been together about 20 years.  I used to be hotter than he was.

I had two kids, gained and lost a bit of weight, etc, and he…well I got him Lasik for Christmas one year, and suddenly those glasses were replaced with beautiful big brown eyes and eyelashes.  Add to that he went fantastically salt and pepper, and he was scrawny but filled out some with the desk job.  And he got hot!  Add that to that he came into some power, and I know that women are drooling.

But he's a loyal guy so I'm not worried.   At the same time, I don't take him for granted.  I try to remember he could be with someone 10-15 years younger and nobody would bat an eyelash, and that fact helps me stay motivated to keep in shape, stay supportive of him, try to keep the romance alive, etc.  So much of this is in your control, OP--in your attitude.

I always say that I want us to look like matching bookends--like we fit together, and so I try for that.  I don't have to be a model, just a complement to him and vice-versa.

Now it's January and the whole of America is on board to pep talk you into getting motivated and doing what you've resolved to do this year to be a better you, so I propose just relaxing, taking a breath, and going with it!  It's a new year; a new start.[/quote]

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