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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your husband has a point. This was his problem and when you married him it became your mutual problem. You are entitled IMO to your initial response and he was entitled to say what he did, and now as the person with more psychological distance from the issue its's on you to be the bigger person and start solving this problem. Not just how to pay off the debt but how to get your savings back in shape. (hint: out of his salary) I say all this as spouse of a person who brought similarly sized problems to the marriage. Did I personally incur the debts? no. But it gets me/us NOWHERE to point that out. And to get in such trouble in the first place means a lot of emotions are involved, and pointing it out doesn't do anything to turn my spouse's emotional reactions from unhealthy to healthy.[/quote]
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