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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your follow-up post is full of veaguaries. "I think" is riddled all over it. By this point you should *know*, what he thought and what he knew. Leans don't just disappear. If he got bad advice from a liscensed professional, you can work that problem, if nothing else have that person's liscense taken away. If he got bad advice from say his brother, then he's just an idiot. You need to do a few things. First, find out how much debt there is. Second, realize that the ex doesn't get off the hook. The creditor may never see his/her money, but no way does the ex get off scott free. I am concerned about a few things. First, your husband got bad tax advice, and now he seems to be getting bad legal advice. You have every right to shut that shit down. Second, yesterday is Sunday. How did this all come to light when finantial institutions are closed. I suspect your husband is hiding some facts from you. Finally, your husband is great at laying on the guilt, and it sounds like making you take on the sins of his ex. And, he's great at the creep, you knew about the debt in general but only now when you are married and have a life together do you learn of the full extent of it. You have every right to shut this all down and to be upset. Don't be abusive, but no way should you let this continue. Be part of any future discussions, going to the lawyer if need be. I'd not allow him to continue to treat you this way both in the drip of facts, the guilt trip and allowing him to say "we have to pay all this because my ex won't". None of this is ok. [/quote]
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