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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ummm. . . You need to talk to a lawyer. She can't keep him from his kid. A lawyer could tell you if there was some way to keep the ex from getting half the property after you pay the lien. Why is he so worried about hurting her feelings? I can't believe that you would take money out of your retirement account to pay his ex's portion. You know you will be heavily penalized for that. [/quote]

We have talked to a lawyer. He is not worried she will keep his kid from him but he has always been very wary of rocking the boat and making things acrimonious with her. I am unwilling to create problems in my marriage by insisting he engage in warfare with his ex. It's not worth it. I have figured it up and we will be penalized at about a 38% rate due to our tax bracket and the early withdrawal tax. Trust me, I am aware of how not ideal the option is. But we don't have another choice. The alternative is ignore the lien until it is refilled at which point they would likely look  my husbands tax returns, see what he is making (considerably more than when the lien was put on the property) and begin moving to garnish wages to satisfy the lien. I would like to have some control over how the get our money and try to get out in front with an offer rather than wait for them to garnish money on THEIR terms.

It absolutely sucks. Hence my inability to muster enough enthusiasm to make sure he didn't feel like shit over it. It blows! [/quote]

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