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[quote=Anonymous][quote]So, talk to him. "DH, I saw this email. I was really hurt that you lied to me. What's going on here?"

If he brings up the snooping, say "you're right, and that's a conversation I'm willing to have. But I want to talk about the lying first."[/quote]

OP here. I think it's going to have to be something like this.  I want to wait until I see him face to face after work though first.  And as far as the snooping, he doesn't really have any room to talk because he read my texts between my daughter and I and got mad at me for something a few months back! lol

And I know strip clubs don't bother everyone, I wish it didn't bother me.  But he even says he doesn't like them.  But, it bothers me to be sitting at home big and pregnant with a toddler and him looking at naked women with his friends.  It just does. and I am obviously not alone in feeling like that.  But like we've all said, the lying is the real issue.  I tried to give him a reason not to lie and maybe he just doesn't believe that I won't freak out or doesn't want to hurt me and figures I just won't find out but, not the case.[/quote]

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