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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  Well, to me a lap dance, blow job or stripper is bad enough and off limits.  The email was specific.   One friend asked how the bach party plans were going.  Husband said groom wants a cabin in WV.  Friend said yeah, lets get f'ed up and gamble, husband said groom also mentioned choice clubs in the area (WV) and specifically said "unclothed lady type clubs" Friend said "perfect" Husband said "gotta keep the clubs on the way way down low though.

Yes, lying and distrust is a recipe for disaster.  I believed him until I read that. :([/quote]

Look, OP. You need to talk to your husband honestly. Right now, you are mad at him for concealing something from you, while you are concealing from him that you know about it. Your "trying to give him an out" is manipulative and also dishonest. Why can't you just say, look, I saw the emails and I'm upset that you volunteered not to go and are now saying that you'll have to lie about where you were? Why is that such a hard thing for you? Be an adult. Deal with this like adults. [/quote]

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