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[quote=Anonymous]OP here.  All true.  He apologized for slamming doors and is using his three hours of non-school-day screentime this morning but I am as confounded as ever.

I am caught between two ideas and struggling to know which is the right course.  We have always had restrictions (3 hours screentime on weekends/summer days and 1 hour when homework done.)  With these restrictions at least he mostly did the homework so it seemed to help him succeed.

OTOH, it could be that the restrictions are conditioning him (Pavlovian-style) to want only the video games and nothing else.  In which case we should remove all restrictions and let him find his own mojo to succeed.  He is 14, after all.

The intermediate course that was suggested: base it on grades, seems like an appropriate compromise, but no.  If we based screentime freedom on his getting good grades, that would put us quickly back in the restrictive zone (he is smart but experience has shown he will not do the homework).

DH and I have been worrying over this quandary for YEARS.  DH believes in the restrictions, I support the freedom.  I rue the day we got a toddler a Gameboy, but now the damage is done and I don't know what is the right course.  Are there any studies on this phenomenon?[/quote]

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