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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You really wonder why people don't go to the police? I bet you wonder why all women who are raped don't come forward too. [/quote]

Yes, I am wondering in this situation.[/quote]

Well lets walk through it in this situation.

The OP's cousin was a teen and fondled by her uncle. She was close to te family since the OP remembers seeing her a lot then not seeing her. Sounds like the cousin did the right throng and told her parent, sibling of molester. In order to not rock the boat the "adults" decide to not ruin molesters life and keep cousin away. Molester has family, kids, etc. what good is he in prison? Who would support his kids?  Everyone brushes it under the rug. Molester continues to be creepy, fondle, touch inappropriately.  Friends of OP's sister stay away from him because of behavior. OP's family figures -- hey, he isn't touching ME. No harm right?  At work he fondles the secretaries. You know he wouldn't do that to a female superior (are there any?) because that would get him fired. He is so charming that the guys at work love him. Now the secretaries can't do a thing because the guy everyone likes will get them fired.

His wife doesn't do anything because that would be a change in her life. 
OP's sister doesn't say anything because her Mom hasn't done anything. 
OP's family doesn't do anything because cousin said something and nothing happened.

Then there is OP. She knows he has issues but he never touched HER. But now she has a child. Doubt arise. Does she do anything? Nope. Her daughter learns from her (like she learned from her mother) that you don't do anything.

Funny, I bet OP would be appalled if a child molester moved down the street. Of course her father IS the child molester so no need to alert anyone.

This is why these people continue to abuse children (and women). [/quote]

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