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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could someone please tell me what all these "physical conditions " are that make it uncomfortable to have sex?? I think I've read at least three different people mentioning this-and no one is willing to explain what it is... Did you never properly  heal from childbirth? Are you extraordinarily overweight?  What is so hard to talk about?? Op why can't you give more details about this?[/quote]

Things that can make sex hurt:

An episomtemy (sp) scar that is pulling during penetration.

A tipped uterus makes the cervix point the wrong way and the guy hits it over and over during penetration.

Insufficient natural lubrication and a failure to use Astroglide or similar.

Vaginismus is a painful contraction (spasm) of the vaginal muscles. It can be caused by anxiety or a psychological response. If a person "grins and bears it," and has penetrative sex despite the pain, it often continues and gets worse.  Learning to associate sex with pain is a recipe for developing this response.

Consitently having sex when it's painful is a recipe for creating a situation in which you can't have pleasurable sex because your body has learned that sex = pain. It's a vicious cycle.

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