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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My parents divorced when we were adults, so perhaps that makes a difference, but it was pretty easy to figure out. That being said, my mother told us what my father did while my father and my now stepmother make it sound like they just knew one another as friends for a long time and got together once both were separated. Funny thing is they didn't cover their tracks very well (that's how I confirmed who was telling the truth, although neither parent knows I know and how), although my stepsiblings still vehemently deny the "rumors" of the affair. I have yet to have the heart to break it to them![/quote]

OMG, I thought for a second you are my SIL or BIL.  My Dh's dad left his mom when the kids were adults (19-22 years old ish) and married the woman he was having an affair with and they also make it sound like they just knew each other as friends but they've been married now for 20 years (though they don't have any kids together).  Honestly when I met my FIL I was disgusted with him.  Still am about all this.  And they act like they are the victims.  they constantly say "FIL walked out with the clothes on his back and one box"  :roll: implying that MIL got everything and lived high on the hog after FIL left.  When in fact she was devastated and knew of the affair and was willing to work on the marriage.

But in our case, I think everyone knows (I came into the family after they were already married) but no one talks about it and let FIL and stepMIL go on and on about how they started dating after his marriage broke up and how he walked out practically a pauper.  Makes me sick.[/quote]

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