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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it possible that he knows something about you that makes him want to avoid contact?  For example, are you very poor and likely to ask for support for your new baby?  Or a gift for the new baby?  Or babysitting for the new baby?

Maybe your mother was a drain on him, maybe she was mentally ill?  Maybe you show similar emotional/mental qualities (even though you are physically different) as your mom?

Your posts are a bit incoherent, and lack the maturity expected in the mother of a new baby.  Maybe he can see this as well and is worried something that will drain what little life he has (he is after all 80) instead of giving him joy?  (I also find it very emotionally immature that you just can not understand that not everybody bonds with children)[/quote]

I was 4. I make over 6 figures. My mother has never suffered from mental illness and always provided well for me - vacations, private lessons and camps, and college. I agree with poster after you. Pp you are bizarre. No 4 year old warrants being abandoned. In fact if my mother had been mentally ill wouldn't the correct response be to protect your child? 
Bringing me back to the question - how do men (without addiction or mental illness) abandon their kids?[/quote]

Women do this as well.  I know several men who are taking care of children who have been abandoned by their mothers.   I know several grown men who never met their mothers because their mother abandoned them and never came back.

Did you ever discuss this with your mother?  Did she ever give you her view as to why he wouldn't speak to you?  She must have some theory...[/quote]

It's clearly painful to my mother so no I do not bring it up. I could very well have been the cause. They were married almost a decade before they had me.
Yes, I've seen women abandon their kids never once have I come across a sane woman who has abandoned her kids. But men who appear to be sane and not addicted just cut off ... I don't understand  absent mental defect how a person can go against , what I feel, is nature. The automatic responsibility to protect your young. Protect your legacy.Who knows maybe they feel by leaving they are protecting the babies.[/quote]

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