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[quote=Anonymous]Of course you don't want your business finances going through an account that you don't have access to and that a third party does.  You made a mistake when you set it up that way, and now regret it.  Since dealing with you MIL is difficult, minimize those interactions.  You cannot change her behavior, you can only change your own.  To start with, open a new account for your business and start transfering things over.  You know now that this will be less work and aggravation than trying to force your MIL to sign the paperwork.  For the future, you and your husband have to decide together how you will handle interactions with your MIL.  Either you set boundaries together or they won't hold.  Don't bother telling her anything about it, just from here on out make your decisions and actions based on what the two of you think is the best way to proceed.  That may mean limiting the time spent with MIL, or making sure all communication goes between DH and MIL.  Don't answer the phone when she calls, if she thinks it's important she can leave a voicemail and you can decide whether it is something you need to respond to or whether it should be passed on to your husband.[/quote]

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