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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Or, is anyone here currently staying in their marriage, waiting for you kids to be grown before divorcing?

How did it work out for you?  regrets?  etc?[/quote]

A DH here.. That is my current plan, but 10 more years is a long time especially if the kids already see how dysfunctional their mom and dad's relationship is.[/quote]

Does you DW know you feel this way? Do you ever talk? How could you stand 10 years?[/quote]

There were intamacy issues before our 1st child.  Then after her mom died she checked out of our relationship.  It is kind of like a wall. She wanted to have a 2nd child and got close to me again but then our relationship went back to the way it was before the 2nd child.  She knows that I am not happy and we have talked.. She has said that she is also not happy.  She is a good mother, but a terrible wife and partner.  She is a roommate and co-parent.  I am more of an extrovert and I generally like to

I have thought that if I did anything now... It would have to wait til the end of the school year.  We live in a great area that has great schools... Plus the kids have several good friends within walking distance.   I am an active dad and I am the morning parent who gets them ready for school and the last parent they see when they go to bed.  If I got divoiced.. That would change.[/quote]

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