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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So why is it ok for a man (DH) to think about his wife's friends but a woman can't do the same?[/quote]

There's nothing wrong with finding another man attractive, IMO. Getting married doesn't mean you become less human, but you have a commitment - not only to abstain from romantic relationships outside the marriage, but also to conduct your social and professional life in such a way that preserves the integrity of the marriage. So it should be clear to your friends, your coworkers, every one that you are serious about your marriage - there should be no room for some one to feel as if you lead him or her, to make them think you're open to an affair. If a friend actively dislikes your spouse, makes that known, and makes your spouse feel unwelcome at social gatherings, then that friendship should become very limited - there should not be room for uncertainty about where your priorities are. That goes for both wives & husbands. Fidelity is not just about keeping your genitals to yourself & your spouse; it is a way of life that guides you through these kinds of situations - whether it's your friend's hot husband, the flirty coworker, or a friendly face in a lonely, sad moment of your life. [/quote]

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