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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband said "I don't think it needs to be done, so I don't have to do it."

This is in relation to a couple things I asked him to do around the house. Not large things, and not all at once. Painting a vent cover to match the wall. Removing a valance the past owner put up. Scrubbing the glass shower stalls of caked on soap scum. He spends 5+ hours on his iPad every night after work, it'd be nice to carve out just an hour for some kind of household project. Instead, he never thinks anything needs to be done which absolves him of any responsibilities while I slave away. I dont mind doing things here and there, but im tired of being the only one pitching in. Seems unfair, but I'm Upset and unreasonable right now.

You tell me. Is it ok for a spouse to say this?
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You're asking 2 different questions. Is it normal? Sure, men are lazy. Is it okay? That's up to you.[/quote]

men are lazy.  Men are lazy for you probably.  Im a man.  I love doing things for the DW.  Anything.  She comes home to a home cooked meal made by me.  Every.  Freaking. Day.  Last I checked, I fathered 4 kids.  Have testicles.  Probably a XY chromosomes.  Yup.  That makes me a male.  Oh. Wait.  Im over 18.  That makes me a man.  And I am not lazy.

Now, I can totally see myself being lazy for certain women.  Probably I would be if I were trapped in a relationship with the likes of you. [/quote]

I believe you. What I meant was 'Men who can spell English are lazy,' which doesn't apply to you in whatever trailer park you live in.[/quote]

Wow.  Is this happening?  Are we doing this?  How about proper grammar? You think men who can spell "English" are lazy?  Or did you mean, "Men who can't properly spell in English are lazy?"

Why don't you stick to the issue, and not dance around and trying to distract the issue by attacking how the message is being delivered to you?  Yeah, I'd come up with a whole list of shit why I couldn't do anything for you.  But the real reason isn't that I couldn't.  It's because I wouldn't.....

Go be a spellchecker elsewhere and start treating men with respect. Maybe you'll see that some actually work hard. [/quote]

Okay, Mrs. Trailer Park. [/quote]

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