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[quote=Anonymous]Let's break this down to the component parts.

You knew about the trip for a long time, and had no problem with it.  You're still not upset that he's going on the trip.

You have no fundamental objection to strip clubs, and have gone yourself, "many times."  He knows this.

On Wednesday, you find out that he's going to a strip club.  You are surprised that a bachelor party in Vegas for a 25 yo will have "go to strip club" on the itinerary.  (Seriously?)

I'm still not clear what you want him to do - not go on the trip?  Bail on the strip club?

I don't think your feelings are completely unreasonable, but this is one of those instances that you don't really get to complain about.  If you'd always been opposed to strip clubs, and he was sneaking to one without telling you, you'd have a beef.  But you have always been OK with them (and presumably will be again - it's just a temporary feelign you have), and he had every right to think that you still were.  I don't think you should demand he change his plans 2 days before the trip because you suddenly (and temporarily) reversed a long-standing acceptance (or even liking) of strip clubs.  Not what you wanted to hear, but that's my first reaction.

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