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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I get it.  I had something similar come up when my #1 was about that age.  It wasn't a strip club outing, it was a football game with the guys.  I was upset that he would even consider going when my #1 was a mere 8 weeks old.  I was a hormonal mess and I just didn't want to be left alone.  And I am someone who generally completely supports guys outings.  I did previous to kids and I do now regularly.  I remember not wanting to tell him not to go.  I wanted him to come to that conclusion on his own and I was really upset.

I think those first few months after a new baby are really, really hard.  I think you're probably not your normal self and it's very upsetting to have a reaction that doesn't feel like you.  Or at least that's what got to me...I felt like I was this horrible, clingy, insecure slob.  But in any case, my feelings were real.  Ugh.

In my case, he ended up not going and I felt sort of guilty.  I think your husband should probably take a pass, but I also probably wouldn't tell him not to go.  I just would be very honest about your feelings and see where that leads.

You'll get through this and you'll feel like yourself again.  Good luck.[/quote]

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