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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand the animosity towards the woman. Her husband ignored the line crossing until his wife mentioned it. He took care of it. End of story.

The idea that a woman is a home wrecker because she made a few out of line comments is nuts. It reinforces the sexist idea that men can't control themselves and women are responsible for their lust. OP, your husband is a grown ass man, let him manage ending this friendship on his terms. [/quote]

Ok-I agree with this and always get upset when the other woman/man is blamed--after all they aren't the one married. However,  the other party is not blameless. A person with self-respect does not "cross the line" by flirting, getting emotionally dependent on a married man. This is even worse when she has met the wife. It is so disrespectful to the married woman who trusted the friendship. In my scenario, my dh never flirted back. He did let her carry on for longer than he should have but that's it. She crossed the line. She was the one who couldn't be trusted. She needed to back off and get her sexual flirting on somewhere else. [/quote]

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