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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you have any studies to back up the "beta"  behaviors equals bad sex?  Cuz otherwise you guys sound like you're just trying to find excuses to act like a dick.[/quote]

It's not that the beta causes bad sex. It's the lack of alpha. You can have both -- in fact, you need both for a solid, long term relationship.

I'm not going to go looking for studies at the moment; but take a look at the characteristics of the hero in pretty much any of the romance novels  so popular among women. These guys are not loading dishes or being overly respectful. The girls are pining over the guys on the football team, not the guys on the chess team. Common experience suggests that women's sexual engine gets revved up more by dominant, aggressive, physically strong men more than by considerate, accommodating, physically unremarkable men. I'd be willing to look for studies showing that women get more aroused by nurturing, non-dominant men; but I doubt that's the case. They might like sharing a household with such men, but sexual arousal is something else again. [/quote]

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