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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry I said that to you.  It's OK that you cussed me out.  A lot of people say things like "If it's BPD run.  They'll never change."  I see it all the time right here on this board.

And it's just not true.  People with BPD are unfairly stigmatized and there a now effective treatments.  But it is no picnic.

I strongly advise you to get away from this therapist.  As I said, BPD is the new black these days.  Therapists used to refuse to treat Borderlines -- it was just a label they slapped on to any patient that was oppositional, or did not get "cured" quick enough.  Now that there are recognized treatments, every therapist wants a piece of the action.  I think you are perceptive in stating that this therapist is "looking" for BPD.  She's on the hunt.

And speaking of thyroid glands, I had a situation that fits perfectly into falling into the net of someone with a predisposition to go looking for things.  I went for a physical once, and was asked if I wanted my thryroid checked.  I said sure.  The next thing I knew I was being called back again and again for more and more bloodwork and told I probably had a tumor in my pituiatary gland -- minor brain surgery, no big deal.  I was hysterical  An endocrinologist finally put an end to the whole thing.  I was taking a vitamin that caused the test to register incorrectly.  The point being that I never needed the test and got caught in this guy's net because he liked to look for thyroid problems uninvited.

This is why I recommend Wake Kendall.  They are the pioneers of bringing DBT to DC.  They are not lacking for business, and therefore have no motivation to diagnose someone as Borderline if they are not.  And they know how to diagnose correctly.  They are experts.  It also could be that you husband does not have BPD, but could benefit from DBT anyway.  DBT is not exclusively a treatment for BPD.  It can help with anxiety and depression as well.

I am again sorry that I allowed other the prejudice of others to prejudice me against you.  I hope you will accept my apology.

Finally, the questions you are asking are not easy to answer.  BPD is complicated.  But I will leave you with this very quick video which I think actually sums it up brilliantly, and it's actually very funny.  Have a nice weekend.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iraGmA7-9FA[/youtube][/quote]

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