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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you are afraid of your husband.  You are afraid he'll get mad and you hint that he's been physical in his anger.  You are in an abusive relationship.  Keep in mind that this isn't just about you.  While you are accommodating his anger issues your children are watching and learning.  And the lessons they are drawing are not what you want them to learn.

You need therapy, by yourself, ASAP.  No, you don't need couples therapy.  You don;t have two rational people trying to work through the issues, you're the only one doing that.  You need to figure out how to deal with the situation.

Its not about the yelling.  Please get help.[/quote]

THIS.  OP, I hope you are reading this and I hope you are able to get the help you and your children need.  The reason couples therapy didn't work is because couples therapy doesn't work when it is an abusive relationship - I used to work at a Domestic Violence Counseling Center and we never offered couples counseling because it is dangerous and doesn't work, and re-victimizes the person being abused (as you observed).

Please get counseling for yourself - if you cannot afford a counselor, there are resources through each county.  I am familiar with Montgomery County since that's where I worked:
http://www.montgomerycountymd.gov/fjc/

If you're not in MoCo, there should be resources specific to your county/city to assist you with this.

Best of luck to you and your family![/quote]

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