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[quote=Anonymous]OP I didn't read every other post but I just have to say: while I understand your fear of split custody, you have NO IDEA how long your plan may take (how exactly will you know when there is "no chance he'll get any custody"??). It could take YEARS and every day that your kids are exposed to his verbal and emotional abuse, they are being slowly poisoned and harmed. You need to develop a safe, sustainable exit plan that gets you out ASAP, and find a way to get both the legal and financial support you'll need. But your attitude of "divorce is not an option so I'm staying until I know he won't get custody", that makes no sense. Since you tried counseling with him and things got worse, have you tried counseling on your own or with your older child? Even reaching out to a domestic violence hotline for perspective and options is a better idea than what you've said. I truly wish ALL of you luck: you and your kids luck with getting away from him and finding peace and stability elsewhere; and him with waking up and realizing how hurt he is as well as hurtful, and healing.[/quote]
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