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[quote=Anonymous]Op - it sounds like something changed if he only became like this 2 years ago. Could it be depression? Drinking too much? Using pills? Crazy high stress level? Hormone imbalance?

Also it sounds like you have major marital issues so he is probably also very resentful, angry, and frustrated that he is in a sexless, loveless marriage.

As you know you aren't going to work this out as the two of you are locked in a power struggle that isn't likely to shift after all this time.

You need a lawyer to tell you how much evidence is enough. The other piece is that it could be that the stress of the marriage and conflict with you is his main stressor/trigger and once you leave him and that stress is gone, he may be different with the kids than he is now. (Or maybe not).

It could also be that you have enough evidence now that he only gets supervised visits but that that becomes the wake-up call he needs and he does therapy, gets help, figures out what the issue is and then goes for more custody - assumably in that case you would be fine with more custody if he wasn't this angry and abusive.

Seeing as his actions have a start point that is recent - there must be a trigger.

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