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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This transgression does not merit disbanding an otherwise sound family of five. Yet it's hard to dismiss any of the reactions here as unwarranted. Confessing definitely the harder road. I see both sincerity and folly in that. Do what you need to do to get past it.[/quote] Agreed. He confessed. This means he dumped all his guilt onto you. Not cool. Definitely the harder path for you. But... he may have done so not only to clear his conscience, but also to feel "real" about the intimacy he has built over the years with you. He could have easily lied, he didn't. He sounds like a keeper. Just my opinion. Big, big hugs to you. I hope you find a better place in years to come and draw on your mutual strengths as a couple right now. I know everyone is focused on you, but the fact that he came clean means he's an emotional mess as well. This will sound crazy, but you need to help him heal too.[/quote]
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