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[quote=Anonymous]If your daughter has been dating a boy (a year older) for a year, they are having sex. They just are. They will also have sex at the beach house. Trust me. That will be happening, regardless of what you or the mother think or do.

The horse has left the barn.

You say that you have a [i]hunch[/i] that they are sexually active. Please talk to your daughter directly about this. She may be hesitant to talk to you because of your conservative views. Your daughter's health and your ability to communicate with her need to come first. Set your views aside for a bit and just talk and listen.

She needs to be on birth control or she WILL get pregnant if they are having sex. Then she will have some decisions to make which are far more difficult than if she should go away for a weekend to the beach house.

Don't put pressure on another family to provide alot of supervision or to adhere to your morality for your daughter. If she goes, she will be having sex. If she does not go, she won't be having sex (this weekend). Be realistic.

The other mother probably feels that the horse has left the barn, and does not understand why you are suddenly concerned about supervision since the the kids are already having sex.

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