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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Would it be helpful to you for a family member to rub your face in what (they view) are your own bad choices? Do you really need them to point out your failings to you? How you could do things better (like them)? Or would you find that to be highly intrusive, even insulting? Think about your own failings and how you want others to treat you.....think about what you really hope to accomplish before you speak. [/quote] Please. This is not a matter of "I want you do me like me" or "do things my way." It's not a matter of opinion. Morbid obesity is not healthy. As for how I want others to treat me - if I am acting in a way that could be harmful, I'd expect my loved ones to approach me with their concerns. Not harangue me, not lecture me, not scold me, but to tell me that they are concerned for me. In fact, if they didn't care, I'd expect them to say nothing. Do you routinely not express concern for your loved ones? [/quote]
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